New Moon + Solar Eclipse in Libra: Embracing Balance and Letting Go
As we approach the New Moon and Solar Eclipse in Libra on October 2, 2024, we’re invited to reflect on balance, not just within ourselves but in our relationships and how we show up in the world. Libra, the sign of harmony and fairness, asks us to examine where imbalance may be holding us back from the peace and alignment we crave. With the added intensity of the Solar Eclipse and its conjunction to the South Node, this is a powerful moment to release old patterns that keep us stuck.
For many of us, myself included, this New Moon isn’t just about the cosmic shifts—it’s deeply personal. Over the past year, as I’ve balanced starting my business, raising my daughter as a single mom, and healing from my divorce, the idea of balance has taken on new meaning. It’s not just about making sure everything gets done or striving for perfection; it’s about being honest with myself about where I’m placing my energy and whether it’s truly aligned with my values.
Letting Go of Perfectionism
One of the biggest lessons this eclipse season has brought to the surface for me is the need to release perfectionism. Starting a business while navigating single motherhood has been a journey full of ups and downs. In the early stages, I often found myself chasing the idea of doing it all “perfectly”—from creating offerings to building my brand and being fully present with my daughter. But perfectionism, as I’ve come to realize, isn’t sustainable. It’s an illusion that keeps us stuck in a constant cycle of never feeling good enough.
Libra’s energy teaches us that balance doesn’t come from doing everything flawlessly but from making peace with our imperfections. It’s about recognizing that we can’t control everything, especially during an eclipse. We’re being asked to let go and trust that what we release will open doors to new opportunities and greater harmony.
Channeling Ambition and Energy
The square between the eclipse and Mars speaks directly to ambition and energy. As someone with big dreams for my business, I’ve felt the pull to go all-in, often working late into the night to make things happen. But I’ve also learned that overextending myself doesn’t always lead to success. Mars’ influence in this eclipse challenges us to rethink how we channel our ambition. Are we pushing ourselves in directions that drain our energy, or are we focusing on what truly matters?
For me, this has meant reevaluating how I allocate my time and energy. Being a mom and an entrepreneur means finding a rhythm that allows for growth while also prioritizing rest and self-care. It’s a delicate balance, and the eclipse is a reminder that we need to be mindful of where our energy is going. Just as we let go of perfectionism, we must also let go of the idea that we can do it all at once.
Staying Open to What the Eclipse Brings
Eclipses are magical moments, and part of their power is in their unpredictability. While we can make plans and set intentions, eclipses remind us that the universe often has its own timeline for our growth. One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned is to remain open to what the eclipse brings—whether it’s clarity, a new direction, or the realization that something needs to be released. Sometimes what the eclipse shows us can feel challenging, but it’s always aligned with our highest good.
During this time, it’s important to ask yourself: What do you truly want next in life? This is the perfect moment to reassess your path and make decisions about where you’re headed. The eclipse energy invites you to get real about what you’re ready to release and what you’re ready to embrace. Are you prepared to step into a new chapter, even if it means letting go of something that once felt safe?
Relationships and Balance
Libra rules relationships, and this eclipse brings to light the need for balance within them. Whether it’s in personal relationships or how we relate to our work, this is a moment to ask ourselves: Are we giving too much or too little? Are we overextending ourselves in areas that aren’t giving us the peace we seek? These are tough questions, but the eclipse encourages us to get real about what needs to change so that we can restore harmony.
For me, that has meant setting clearer boundaries in both my personal and professional life. As a business owner, it’s easy to say yes to every opportunity or to overcommit in the name of growth. But true balance comes from knowing when to step back and when to lean in. It’s about finding that sweet spot where we can thrive without burning out.
Moving Forward with Clarity
Eclipses, though intense, offer moments of profound clarity. While they often ask us to face difficult truths, they also give us the opportunity to let go of what’s no longer serving us and to embrace a new way forward. For those of us navigating the complexities of starting a business, raising a family, or simply trying to create a more balanced life, this New Moon and Solar Eclipse is a potent reminder that we don’t have to carry it all alone. We’re allowed to release, to reassess, and to move forward with a renewed sense of purpose.
As we move through this eclipse energy, ask yourself: Where in your life do you need to restore balance? What are you ready to let go of, even if it feels difficult? And how can you channel your ambition and energy into what truly aligns with your values?
This eclipse is here to help us recalibrate, to let go of what no longer fits, and to step into a more empowered version of ourselves. The work may feel hard, but the reward is greater peace and alignment.
May this eclipse bring you peace and clarity.
With lunar love,